You and Male to Male Spanking.

Posted by Firm Dad Ireland on 9:49 AM comments (0)

Take a moment or two to read this extract...

I guess I had known Troy for the last 15 years or so, ever since I was four really. He was the dad of Dan and Dale, (some of my closest school mates) and because of the situation with my mom and her boy friends I tried to spend as much time over at their place rather than at home with my mom and the numerous ‘uncles’ come ‘stepdads’ that came in and out of my life.

Anyway, I liked it over at Dan and Dale’s place and I had grown close to their Mom and Dad often secretly wishing that they were my Mom and Dad too really. They were good people you know? Not a lot of money but heaps of love and good fun to be with. Momma (as Dan and Dale’s Mom was known) was always cooking and baking and Poppa (Dan and Dale’s dad) well he worked in a bank but when he was at home was always good to me. I knew him to be a firm but fair, no nonsense kind of guy, kind hearted and caring but with an old school approach to life and clear principles when it came to family and his kids.

So it seemed only natural, when I fell out with my mom and her current boyfriend and ended up with nowhere to live that I would bunk down at Dan and Dale’s for a bit. I felt a bit awkward at first, as well as Dan and Dale there were five other younger siblings and having me there meant an extra mouth to feed on what I knew was already limited money coming into the house.

I think that’s why I hit on the not so brilliant idea of breaking into old man Jarvis’s place and stealing some money that we all knew he had stashed around the place somewhere. Besides, no one liked old man Jarvis, he owned a farm near the river where we all went skinny dipping and was always watching us and he was a mean old cuss who seemed to hate teenagers (other than watching us swim naked that is) so he deserved being robbed. Well at least that’s what I told myself.

But as I say it was a not so brilliant idea. I broke in Monday evening when I thought he was out at the local farm owners meeting and had every intention of finding his stash of money and taking some of it. Only trouble is that Old man Jarvis hadn’t gone to the meeting. He had had one of his famous falling out’s with the committee and so was boycotting the meeting as an act of indignant protest. Miserable old cuss, like I said no one liked him.

Anyway, long story short, he caught me and called the sheriff and I was in some serious grief and knew it. But good old Paul Rock the local sheriff seemed to dislike old man Jarvis as much as the rest of us and convinced him to let ‘my parents’ deal with it instead of taking me to court. I can’t tell you how relieved I was especially, as I thought at the time, since my mom wasn’t going to do anything and her current boyfriend was always so drunk he hardly knew I existed.

But the Sheriff had other ideas. He knew I had left home and knew that I was over at Troy and Dianne’s and he also knew just how much of a no nonsense kind of guy Troy was and so instead of taking me to my Mom’s place he took me straight home to Troy and Diane’s.

That’s how I found myself standing in front of Toy in the ‘den’ being lectured about my bad behaviour and having the riot act read to me. It was then that Troy told me that since I was living in his home and since he had all but taken on a parental role with me, due to my age, that it seemed only fair that he treated me like one of his sons and dealt with me accordingly.

I can’t begin to tell you the emotions and sensations that welled up in me as he was speaking to me in his kind but firm yet loving and oh so fatherly way. Nor could I begin to tell you the emotions that flooded through me and the thoughts that cascaded my mind when, as he removed is belt he said, “So since you are going to be one of my sons, you can get yourself undressed and go stand in that corner facing the wall with your hands behind your head. It’s time you learnt that this dad spanks and that I paddle pretty hard too.”

Ok, so I have a question or two for you...

Having read the above extract, who could you relate with the most?
The main Character? Dan or Dale? Troy (or Poppa as he is known)? The Sheriff, Old man Jarvis?

If you had to or could be one of the characters in the story who would you be?

Did any part of the story appeal to or interest you more than the rest?
Being a part of a loving family? The skinny dipping? Being watched skinny dipping? Being caught stealing? Being hauled in front of the authority figure that was Poppa Troy? Having to strip naked and stand in a corner whilst the father figure looked on? The impending spanking and paddling that was to come?

You see whilst this extract is true to life it is also fantasy for so many men and touches on the secret desires that so many men have and yearn to experience.

But have you ever asked why? Is it simply homo-erotic fantasy or does it speak into something much deeper some greater, deeper need that so many of us have?

And what about you? How did you feel on reading this extract of the story? How do you respond to the questions that I have asked?

I really would like to hear from you and to get your feed back on not only the story itself but also your answers to the questions that I have posed.

So how about it? Why not respond by using the comments facility below.

Introduction, Disclaimer, Warning and Welcome.

Posted by Firm Dad Ireland on 4:30 PM comments (0)

Much has been said over the years, about spajavascript:void(0)nking – i.e. the spanking of both adults and children alike – and indeed it is certainly true to say that attitudes towards it have certainly changed over the years.

Actually, at the time of my writing this introduction and indeed starting this blog, the attitude towards spanking (at least in most developed countries) appears to be very negative and anti-spanking especially the spanking of minors.
Fortunately this blog is NOT interested in the spanking of minors as a subject and will NOT include any pictures or major content on that particular subject and so if that is your ‘thing’ then you are in the wrong place.

So what is it about?

Well the title kind of says it all doesn’t it. It is about Male to Male spanking and especially the psychology behind it. Or as the general description phrases it...

“This blog looks at ADULT Male to Male Spanking, the techniques, motivations, attitudes, benefits, pitfalls, and especially the psychology behind it.”

Spanking and ADULT male to male Spanking has in fact been around for centuries and whether or not you are pro it or anti it, the fact is that there are thousands of men who participate in it and benefit from it.

On this blog we want to look at Adult Male to Male Spanking and openly, maturely and sensibly discuss the subject and all aspects of it.

PLEASE NOTE THAT: It is our heartfelt desire that this will be a place where those who are involved in, or even interested in, or merely curious about ADULT Male to Male spanking can discuss, read, consider and contribute freely and without ridicule.

WARNING: Therefore, if it is your desire or intention to argue or offend or disrupt please move onto another blog or website. ALL comments and contributions on this blog are moderated and whilst differences of opinion are understandable no discord is permitted. The moderator’s decision is always final and we reserve the right to deny comments without explanation.

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Additionally, the opinions expressed are simply opinions and are not in any way meant as recommendations. Anyone viewing information on this site and considering trying out, experimenting with or participating in the situations, circumstances, accounts or scenarios described within does so at their own risk and of their own volition. We do therefore STRONGLY advise caution in all things related to the subject of Male to Male Spanking.
The above having been said, WELCOME and we hope that you enjoy your time visiting this blog.

Firm Dad Ireland.